That is my take on it. People they fight all the time. The families fight. Why have sex? Your sexual partner or spouse often is like the “black widow”. Oh what a wonderful thing man can be! But dangerous? He’s the most dangerous thing on earth.
Even the rockstars fight! Those dudes you thought were so COOL.. turned out to be as fake as the Wizard of Oz. Greedy..propped up by drugs and alcohol..even murderous. Sports heroes turn out to be these arrogant swine- even murderers.
I like a good cat, that is what I like.